16 Apr Nonchalant

outfit c/o Tobi— Bodysuit; Pants

I’ve been wondering if nonchalance is a virtue or a curse. I have always been the “go with the flow” type– never anxious, never impatient, never unnerved by small inconsistencies. And since birds of a feather flock together, most of the people in my life are equally as carefree.

Lately I’ve had the burden of dealing with more prudent people, and they have me second guessing my nonchalance. Am I TOO chill? Has my lackadaisical attitude been costing me money or opportunities? Or are they sucking all the fun from life from over planning and over thinking?

I don’t have the answers Sway, but I’m sure they lie somewhere in middle ground.